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 Survival Against a World of Cultural Contradictions October 20, 2008
Herbert L Calhoun (Falls Church, VA USA)
1 out of 1 found this review helpful
This is Mary Crow Dog's story, told in her own "uneducated" words. It is a tale of struggle and survival on the outer edges of "conquered Native Land," in the Northern tier of the continent of North America, now referred to as the US of A. It is not only a story about the struggles, defeats and eventual triumphs over Northern white racism and sexism, but also one about the struggle against Native America's own sexism and cultural chauvinism against Native American women.
What is most poignant about Ms. Crow Dog's story is the utter universality of the twin human plagues of racism and sexism and how they can trap and alter the course of not just one life but generations of families of women. By simply changing the names, the shade of darkness, and the region of the country, this could be the story of any "poor woman of color" in the USA.
For a "still recovering male chauvinist pig," this is heady medicine.
As she tells it, for at least three generations (or as far back as she could remember), children of her South Dakota family were taken off their squalid Reservations at an early age, "to be trained and educated" by white Catholic Missionaries, who by all accounts (hers as well as from others along the family tree), provided, in addition to their stern teaching of worthless religious dogma, also meted out an unhealthy dose of contradictions that consisted of sadistic and regular beatings, racism, child sex rape, sexual perversions, and numerous aborted babies of nuns discover accidentally in the schools clogged sewer drains.
Unlike her foremothers, who chose the path of "being willingly socially adjusted" into alien white ways, Ms. Crow Dog chose the course of rebellion, and of course for this she expectedly ran into "heavy weather" where the normal price was extracted. Before all was said and done, she was either forced, or chose, to do it all: drinking, drugs, fights, rapes, prostitution, riots and jailed, until she too finally managed to pull the chaos called her life together to marry a descent man and raise a family. Her payoff for all of her rebellion might be considered meager by some but for her it was enough. It was "peace of mind" for the first time in her life, and a final recalibrating of the family life story.
As she described it, there was not just a "generation gap," between her and her parents, but a "a generation Grand Canyon. " Her mother in particular failed to understand the imperatives driving this wayward daughter. But Ms. Crow Dog's struggles made her a much stronger individual, than meekly going along with her Catholic teachings had made her mother. Arguably it was her rebellion that broke a rather "hopeless" cycle of cultural submission and made her strong enough to confront the worse instincts in the land stolen from her forefathers and foremothers.
Five stars.
An Eye Opener October 8, 2008
M. Lloyd (Illinois)
The book provided a side of an American culture that I was unaware of and frankly shocked to learn of. It wasn't a good shock either, the way in which our country treats the American Indians is appalling and actually disturbing. This is a book that should be read in history class, as its contents are not included in any history class I ever took.
 Whiner! Poor poor pitiful you! July 27, 2008
CHarris (Big Bear Lake, California)
1 out of 12 found this review helpful
Oh please get out the hankie and feel oh so terribly sorry - - and guilty -for this woman and her tribe. If you light skinned, get out the scourge and whip yourself you evil white person. Only white people are bad. Only people of color are abused. I was a white girl in a foreign country struggling to learn the language and get by and I did. Now I am highly paid having gone through the experience. I learned to speak the language and adapt. Cultures change, people change, ethnic peoples are brutalized, citizens are mistreated. Ms Lakota Woman thinks her life is hard, trying being non-hispanic and live in California!
Lakota Woman October 2, 2007
Lorraine Alford (Queensland Australia)
I learnt so much from this book, and felt myself getting angry because of her experiences. good on her for telling her story. L'Ohanna
 Non Fiction September 3, 2007
Blue Tyson
An autobiographical account of Mary Crow Dog's life, this includes experiencing the events that happened at Wounded Knee, and her relationship with her husband, as well as the politics and experiences associated with the AIM political movement.
A look at the disturbing state and problems these people were facing at the time, very interesting.
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